Rather than call negative experience badness let’s call them less than wanted because there are degrees of it and unless you let the momentum really get carried away it won’t be bad it’s just preferred and less preferred.
Holding on to meaningless things in life could be the main reason why nothing good comes your way. Why you never see solutions to the problems that caused you to ask for solutions. The moment you don’t see anything beautiful or pleasing in your life, you create no room for solutions you want in your life.
Do you know your value? Do you believe you are valuable? You are a valuable being in this world. You are worth more than you can imagine. Self-worth is something very important in life. Once you know how much you are worth, you start to appreciate who you are and the little things happening around you. You don’t have to be surrounded by great things in life to know you are important. As you are, you are already worth more than you can imagine.
When does someone feel happy? When doing something or when doing nothing? You will get all sorts of answers when you ask people what make them happier. Some will tell you how more satisfied they are when doing nothing, and there are those who will tell you how more comfortable they are when fully involved in something. Well, people are different, and it is always good to respect what people feel about life.