Infinite Intelligence Episode #58 – Attraction And Reaction
Wow thank you so much for the opportunity you know how you say if you look around you and you notice people are on the honoree disk it means their honor you’re on the honoree disc. I have four members of my family who are struggling with moderate to severe mental health issues do I need to worry about anything I’m asking the dead guys summit talk in case you haven’t heard about what we’re talking about about these disc when we talk about being in the receptive mode we mean being tuned in tapped in turned on we mean flying high feeling good feeling elation and clarity and happiness and joy and appreciation that vibrational point of attraction that when you are feeling those things, what you are then receptive off are things like that that’s how you receive your source energy.
That’s how you receive your inner being. But let’s say that something has happened and you’re feeling vulnerable or like there’s some injustice that’s happened and you’re really feeling onry about it. People write letters to Esther, they don’t know what the word honoree is, apparently isn’t much older word than this society understand. It just means cranky and cantankerous and just looking for something to pick a fight about.
And so if you’re feeling like that, then when you look around, often you’ll notice that the people around you seem to be feeling like that, too. And it isn’t because you turn them into that, it means you met them there. Well, the important thing about understanding about law of attraction is that you didn’t create your family, you didn’t create their reality, you didn’t cause them to be who they are.
But sometimes you live similar life experiences. And so sometimes you turn out in similar ways. You don’t need to, but often you do because you are observing the same surroundings, and often talking about them a lot. And so you are inciting in one another similar vibrational frequencies, it’s sort of like once the ball gets rolling, let’s say you have a negative vibration, negative feeling vibration going on, and you’re not aware of it. Because you don’t know about the power of your emotions. So you don’t do anything about shifting it, or changing your focus or trying to feel better.
So it just gets worse and worse and worse, until it becomes a manifestation. Once a manifestation has occurred, it’s more difficult not to notice it. So there’s just a perpetuation of I felt on MRI, and here’s the reason. And so I’m on MRI, and now I’ve manifested this, and now I’ve manifested this, I’m even more on MRI. And now I’m on MRI, and now I’ve manifested this, and now I’ve manifested this, I’m even more onry.
So it’s logical, isn’t it that people are observing, and what they are observing, then is affecting their vibration. But the key that’s why we began talking about unconditional alignment, not letting the conditions that surround you be the reason that you offer the vibration that you do. So when you’re born into families you’re not. In other words, there is so much backed or documentation offered by medical community and scientists where they want to say, if this is happening to this member of your family, then it’s likely to happen to you.
And the reason that they come to those conclusions is because they gather the statistics, and they find the factual evidence that there are these trends, but they don’t understand what the vibrational basis of those trends are. It’s as simple as this. It’s hard to not notice something that lives in your house. It’s hard to not notice that and it’s hard to then not react to it. And so reactions are actions, it doesn’t matter why you’re offering the vibration you are you’re offering the vibration you are and the universe is going to react to the vibration that you’re offering.
So it sort of looks like this, it feels a little futile and scary to some people who are only listening this far into the conversation, because it feels like so someone behaves in a certain way. And you react to it. And because you’ve reacted to it, now you’re having the same experience. But there is another way of going about this because you don’t need to conditionally react to anything.
You can wake up in the morning when you are at your point of least momentum. And you can deliberately choose good feeling thoughts until that momentum takes you into the receptive mode. And now you’re rendezvous in with your inner being. Now your rendezvous in with other happy people is the whole point of talking about unconditional love is to say don’t Let the conditions control your response. And the only way that you can keep conditions from controlling your response is by getting your action going before your reaction, you follow that, if you’ve got a strong, good feeling vibration going, and you meet up with somebody who doesn’t, you’re not going to have the same reaction to them as you would if you didn’t have your strong good feeling vibration going.
I think where I’m getting concerned, I want to have unconditional love for my niece. But when I come home, and the house is filled with smoke, because she left the food on the stove and a chart in the pan and didn’t open a window to get the smoke out, I start getting concerned that I have a fire hazard I’m dealing with. And then I’m walking into the house the next day, and I wasn’t able to successfully get rid of the smoke smell.
So it’s a reminder that so part of me is wondering, is there a point where you just say, maybe you should move out, you know, so that I have the ease with my home. And then I feel like I’m a failure, because maybe it will come to that. But the thing is, if from that concern, you move out, then from that receiving mode of concern, how it plays out will not be pleasing. If you’re on the high flying disc, if you’re going to something rather than running from something, you’re an entirely different frequency. And the way it plays out is entirely different.
Some years ago, we were visiting with a woman, she was a physician, and so was her husband, and they lived out in the desert. And they had a private plane. And they were in their private plane often. And they had a young girl, she was not quite a teenager, and another young boy who was still in grade school, but all of them as a family. We’re listening to Abraham recordings.
And they were reveling in the newfound knowledge that they create their own reality. One day, they came in for a landing and misunderstood the direction of the wind, and landed from the wrong direction and their plane flipped over and caught fire. They weren’t hurt badly, some minor burns, they got out of the wreckage. And now this mother is back in the hot seat, wanting to find words from us that she could soothe her children because they’re upset if we create our own reality, how did that happen?
And we said to her, hardly anybody walks away from plane crashes, but you did. From your high flying disc, you had an experience, but your reaction to it is what matters. Now, you see what we’re getting at, don’t argue for your limitations and don’t beat up on yourself or having negative emotion. No one wants there has to be full of smoke. But don’t get carried away with it either. Don’t react to it in a way that makes it worse.
And here’s the bottom line in all of this. And this is a wonderful leading edge discussion. It’s impossible not to react to something and make it worse. If you’re in the vicinity of what happened. As you walk in, in that vibration, of course, you’re gonna have that right. If you walk in, you’re flying high, you’re feeling good, you know, you have well being you know, that well being abounds. And that happens, you open a window and you don’t make a big deal about it. But if you’re not, then one thought leads to another I could die in my sleep.
Or she could be so responsible that she could do this or this or this or this or this or this or this when the fact of it is nothing like that has happened. And the likelihood of it happening has more to do with your reaction than it does with anything else. Now, of course, we don’t think that you should put up with unwanted things. We don’t think that if there’s a lot of things that are going on that are unpleasant to you, we would move out.
But we wouldn’t move out from fear of what’s happening. And we wouldn’t move out from disgust of what’s happening and we wouldn’t move out in anger, we would get into our high flying disc and let our inner being call us to what’s next. It’s my home. So the question is if you say, you’d be better off finding another place, and I agree, I appreciate what you say. You can’t find that high flying disc. Now you encourage her into something that is going to be in the long run more satisfying to her because you’ve got this attitude that I’m throwing her out.
Yeah, you can have this attitude that I’m throwing her out at the same time that you’re on your high flying disc. So it takes a little work we know this isn’t the easiest thing to do. We’re talking about what you’re reacting to reactions are the most important conversation. law of attraction.
The words or the concept of law of attraction and the concept of reaction are the same, aren’t they Because I cannot react outside the boundaries of my active relief. That’s such a powerful statement, I cannot respond, nor can the universe respond to me outside of the boundaries of my active relief. So you’ve got to find some positive aspects about your situation. And sometimes, when we counsel or coach, people like this, they think that we’re trying to get you to make lists of positive aspects about your niece, so that she will change.
Now, we want you to make positive aspects about your niece, so that you can be in the receptive mode, and know what to do. The likelihood of her changing isn’t, but there are so many aspects about her that are positive. So if everything that we talked about no matter what it is, if the answer is always get in the receptive mode, and have you noticed, that is always the answer, get in the receptive mode, that’s always the answer, get in the receptive mode, then should there be a question about what should I move out or not? No, get in the receptive mode.
But Abraham, should I move out? Or should I ask her to move out? Get in the receptive mode, Abraham, you must not be hearing my question, should I stay or go? Should I ask her to stay or go? Get in the receptive mode, get in the receptive mode, get in the receptive mode, and then ask that question, get in the receptive mode, that question has already been asked, and it’s already been answered. But you can’t receive because tell us, why haven’t you already asked her to move out?
Well, I believe that there was benefit that she was receiving by being there because it was what else? environment, what else? Not that stable. Now I’m feeling less comfortable when I think my house is gonna burn down. Yeah, it’s not that stable of environment. What else? What is another reason that you haven’t yet asked her to move out, she has no place else to go, she has no place else to go. She doesn’t make very much money.
So how’s that, so isn’t that interesting, you’re reacting to the life that she presents to you. And the life that she presents to you is one of sort of chaos, one of not really trying very hard, one of not supporting yourself well. And so she’s caused you to believe negatively about her, by the way she behaves. So you’re reacting to the way she presents herself. But you could react to what her inner beam knows about her. You could react to the hopes and dreams that she has in her vortex, you could be reacting to a different part of her. When you’re in the receptive mode. You see what we’re getting out.
She wants to be a portrait artists and I have really tried to support that there’s a place for artists that’s near where I live. And it’s one of the reasons she wanted to be where I am. And there are times you see, you can find all kinds of justifications for things to go the way they go in order to support your belief. This is the thing that we really want you to hear your strongest belief and no one would wonder why your strongest belief is in her not success rather than in her success.
And so from that belief, from that vantage point, everything that you’re inspired to, is counterproductive to your receptive mode. Can you hear what we’re getting at, from what you’re observing and your reaction to what you’re observing, it puts you in a chronic vibration that doesn’t allow anything other than things like that to be the experience. So most people would not be as patient as you’ve been, they would make a decision, but it still wouldn’t end there.
In other words, you’d still be aware of her and then you’d feel guilty about what comes next and worried about what comes next. And chances are should move right back in, and the whole thing would start over again. So rather than reacting to what is you want to figure out how to be a reactor to well being how to be a reactor to source energy, how to be a reactor to what her inner beam knows about her, which means you got to take your attention off of what is in order to even get there. Well, there’s a case to be made.
Maybe that was a receptive mode conversation. I want to believe in her ability, but I can’t do it when she is stumbling and bumbling and fumbling right in front of me. So maybe some space between us would give me a better opportunity to believe in her the way her inner beam believes in her. And maybe I could be like a satellite dish that beams the signal in a little bit stronger. She’s easier to love from a distance. Yes, that’s true is easier to love from a distance. And there are all kinds of layers of things. What’s your belief?
Do you believe that it is your responsibility to take care of people who cannot take care of themselves. That’s the belief that most humans still have even though your inner being is wanting you to promote their independence. Your inner being is not wanting you to cut them off. Your inner being is wanting you to promote their connection to the real stream of what they’re looking for. Your inner being doesn’t want you to pretend like you’re the stream to her well being when you’re not.
And when you pretend like you’re the stream to somebody’s well being when you’re not Not, then they continue to just suck from you, whatever it is that they need until you’re depleted, you’ve got to go to the receptive mode and the receptive mode, and the replenishing mode or the same mode. So as you think about her, happily somewhere else, don’t take action right away.
But as you think about her happily somewhere else, and you give yourself the respite of being able to maybe catch a glimpse of who she really is, until you feel that enthusiasm about who she is and what she’s doing, because you’re not helping her in any way, as it is, and isn’t it interesting, the feelings that you’ve had about it, you’ve been allowing them because they feel sort of natural, but the feelings that you’ve had, haven’t felt that great, and you haven’t been really in the receptive mode. And so don’t worry, it gets more till there’s smoke in the house.
Yeah. And so the manifestations will just keep presenting to you what your vibration is, and this is the part that’s so hard for most of you to grasp. Because it feels to you like she’s the one that left the stuff on the stove. She’s the one that put the smoke in the air. And we want you to understand that, that’s all true, but it’s happening in your experience. And that’s the part that you really want to get your thoughts around. It’s happening in my experience, because I am a cooperative component to that.
And the reason I’m a cooperative component to that is because I’m reacting to the condition. And the reason that I’m reacting to the condition is because the condition is so predominant, and so prevalent in my face. So the question is, can I get in the receptive mode under these conditions? Can I get away? Can I get tuned in? Can I meditate? Can I find the privacy? Or am I like most people looking for excuses to do something that I really want to do so that they don’t feel guilty?
So I appreciate what you’re saying love her from a distance, whether she’s in my house or not, weren’t interfering with the situation, she would have long left. Oh, wow. Okay. She would have moved on. But you’re holding it by all this thought to it. And all this getting twirled up in and all this. But this is family and all this was I know all of this. And maybe I can be a positive influence on her. You’re holding yourself in this soup.
And so now the soup is sort of gotten into the air. And now you can make a new decision about it. So if you could just make a decision right now we’re going to just ask you some questions from what you’ve been feeling. But mostly from what we’ve just been talking about just now. We’re going to give you either or choices, and you just speak what you must feel. I would like my knees to stay or go. Well, there it is. There it is. You’re ambivalent about it, you’ve got reasons that you wanted to stay, and reasons that you wanted to go.
So we’ll ask you some more questions. I am responsible for my niece’s well being my niece is responsible for her well being my niece is responsible for her well being my niece is present in my home allows the possibility of me being on the high flying disc, or disallows the possibility of me being on the high flying disc, it shouldn’t matter what should matter very much I can get on the high flying disc anyway, or I can’t get on the high flying disc anyway.
Right, I should be able to get on the high flying disc anyway. And All right, so you have the same ambivalence about her staying or going. But this is the way we want to help you sorted out, we don’t think that you’re in a position to make a decision about whether she stays or goes. But we do think that you’re in a position and we think it’s high time that you made this decision, I do have the ability to get on the high flying disc anyway. Right?
Or I can’t get on the high flying disc as long as she’s here. Well, if you really believe that you can’t get on the high flying disc as long as she’s here, then that first question should have been way easier for you to answer. Because you know, the power and the value of that. Yeah. So is that in question? Do you not believe in the high flying disc? On I believe in the high believe in the receptive mode? Yes. Do you believe in the value of you being there? Yes. Do you believe that this situation is hindering that?
I think sometimes I’m not as skilled at getting on the high flying disc as I would like Dane to us is, I don’t want to just throw her out because I know this is my creation. I’m going to welcome this experience. This is an opportunity for me to discover do I believe in the high flying disc and am I skilled at getting there? And am I conditionally getting there or can I unconditionally get there? What about that? Doesn’t that feel good?
Dear, nice Don’t ever leave you’re helping me discover because the people that just behave the way they’re supposed to who never mess up the air and always make their bed and always take the trash out. They don’t help you understand the unconditional getting on the high flying disc. They make it easy for you to just observe them and feel happy, observe them and feel happy, observe them and feel happy. But not everybody is going to do that. Are they? were definitely not. So what do you think runs in your family? What do you think it is? independence? Yeah.
And isn’t that synonymous with high flying disc? Don’t you think that’s the aspect of your family? That you really want to focus on more than anything? Yeah. And don’t you want to stop letting other people explain to you what’s going on? Don’t you want to tell your version? Don’t you always want to tell the version that gets you on the high flying disc? This is big. Here’s another question.
Do you want to tell the factual version or the version that gets you on the high flying disc? The version I guess, I find this if you tell the factual version, what new facts will sprout from that? More of the same? If you tell the high flying disc version, not the true version of reality, the high flying disc version? Will the new reality be different than the current reality? Yeah. Really good. Thank you. That’s a helpful conversation for everyone isn’t it because everyone has someone they want to throw out.