Most of us worry too much about what others think of us. Focusing on what others think about us is the last thing you may want to do in your life. It is annoying when you use your energy to worry about what other thinks about you. Worse, you may end up becoming their object of attraction if you allow them to lower you too low.
The fear of rejection is one major thing that forces most people to spend most of the time thinking about what other people think about them. The moment you allow that feeling to find a place in you, it becomes difficult to concentrate on what is essential in your life. It becomes challenging to continue with your normal life.
Accepting who you are is very important. Even when you feel you have done the most irritating mistakes, don’t allow your past to control your present fully. Only let your past to be a lesson that helped you spice up your life but not a past giving you sleepless nights.
The worst thing about focusing on what others say about you is that you tend to harmonize with them rather than harmonizing with your source. When you harmonize with others, you tend to lose the attention and awareness of your guidance system.
Your guidance system means a lot in your life. It gives you purpose, strength, direction and all beautiful things in life. So, immediately you lose it, you start seeing faults in your life, and eventually, you feel less important. Feeling less important in life only takes you to an early grave. The moment you start to worry about yourself, you also begin to worry about what other people feel about you.
Getting hooked on about your inner being is more important than getting hooked on about what others think of you. Paying keen attention to your inner being helps you understand your worth. This is the time you start to appreciate yourself even with the little you have.
The quest for others approval and attention can sometimes be disastrous in life. An approval or attention comes at a price which you have to pay. But worse, if you take this path of getting approval, you have to be ready to adjust to accommodate the needs of those you are trying to satisfy. The needs of people keep changing so do their demands.
Sometimes you may find yourself giving that which is not yourself to provide just to keep the attention stronger and lasting. This cycle can repeat itself again and again to a point you feel you are not important anymore. You don’t have to push yourself that far if you accept yourself as you are and worry less about others.
That moment you focus on what is essential in your life, other things no matter how irritating they are, stop to have an impact. In fact, that is the time you start to live a life you have always wanted to live for long.
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