Oh, I understand I’ve listed a long time. And he used to talk about the wobble, I would like to live life where I have better control of my wobble, and can keep it at a high vibration. And can notice those moments when the lions are coming, the way you do that is by looking at manifestations that you’ve already accomplished that you feel happy about. And milking the appreciation that you feel by acknowledging that some things have manifested that were at one time and maybe even for a long time, still in a vibrational state.
And when you chilled out about it, then it came into easier view, you just have to massage your thoughts into those better feeling places. That really is the work. And we know friends. It feels counterintuitive to humans who have been counting on your action to make things happen. But it is our promise to you, your action is miniscule. In comparison with the power and the leverage of alignment with this vortex. Most people are offering most of their action or behavior to compensate for not flowing their energy in a productive way.
You worry about stuff and you don’t line up with well being and you beat the drum of things not going well for you. And then when things don’t go well for you, then you dig in with action and hard work and then you get exhausted. Because this receiving mode is not just the vibrational place, just like you have to set your radio dial on 98.7 FM. If you want to hear what’s broadcasted from that tower, you can’t set it on some other frequency, you have to tune your tuner to that broadcasting tower.
And so we want to convince you that this vibrational reality that this vortex is a broadcasting tower that includes everything that you want, and all that you are on the path to full manifestation of every bit of it. And if you can accept that, that is so and then you can just care about tuning yourself to it, which just means think thoughts that feel good, then everything will turn out the way you’re wanting it to such a nice thing do you could have five things we know you’ve heard this that are important to you.
There are always more than that. But let’s say five major things. And four of them could be going extremely well and one of them not well. And you as humans mostly think that you better dig into that one that’s not going well. And as you do, you turn to what’s not going well, and you actually pinch off the well being on the other five that we’re going well. Conversely, you can have only one thing that’s going well and five things that are going awful. And you could focus on the one thing that is going well set your tone by your attention to that, and the other five would fall into alignment because the receiving mode is the receiving mode.
But when you believe that you have to work hard to compensate for inferiority, or for passed wrong deeds, or when you feel that you have to work hard in order to justify your existence. All of those things are so contrary to what your inner being knows about your readiness and your worthiness that you get crossways of the energy, and then you do offer more effort. And then you get tired, where if you’re feeling good about yourself and others, if you’re looking for positive aspects, if you’re counting your blessings, so to speak, looking for reasons to feel good, not having knee jerk reactions to so many things, then you’re in the receiving mode.
But the receiving mode is also the replenishing mode. That’s where your stamina comes from. That’s where your clarity comes from. That’s where your vitality comes from. That’s where the good ideas come from. But most humans, we love you so much, you know what’s coming next, you are reacting to things. So you’re looking around, wanting to be objective. And that’s a good thing, because you got to sift in order to launch those rockets. But as you’re looking around so often, instead of identifying what you want and running with it, you are having a reaction to what you don’t want.
And when you are reacting to what you don’t want, then you’re putting more emphasis on that. So you’re actually often vibrating more in contrast to what you want, then you are in harmony with what you want. Every subject is two subjects, what is wanted in the absence of it. So sometimes you’re thinking that you’re thinking about money, when you’re really thinking about not having enough of it. Sometimes you’re thinking about having or getting or improving a relationship, when often you’re thinking about the absence of a relationship or something about the relationship that you’ve got that you don’t want.
And so if you don’t introduce an understanding into this equation, of what your emotions are telling you, then you can’t guide your thoughts at those early subtle stages. And if you don’t guide them at early subtle stages, then Law of Attraction is going to carry them into greater and greater momentum where you believe them that you have to take action, but there’s not enough action to compensate for that momentum that’s going in opposition to what you want.
So what’s the answer? Chill out. The answer is Be nicer to yourself. The answer is think more thoughts about yourself that feel good and about others to? The answer is, don’t work so hard, give yourself a break, get more rest, be nicer to yourself, do more of the things that feel good to you. That’s the way you turn this around, you got to give yourself a break, you cannot demand yourself into alignment, you can’t effort yourself into alignment, you’ve got to release, you’ve got to let go, you’ve got to let go of resistance. When you let go of that cord, we promise you it will flow you say.
So we’ve written a few books. And they are significant, because they are the pieces that you’re looking for the first book of significance, asking it is given in the back of it has 22 processes, each one offered to you to help you to release resistance, each one offered to just help you release resistance, we don’t need to teach you how to goose up your desire, you can’t help that. But when you release resistance, then your desires become more dominant, more predominant, you see more evidence of them coming about, we would read the 22 processes in the back of that book, if we were standing in your physical shoes.
The next book of significance that we wrote for you, it’s talking about deliberate creation, it’s about focusing. And it’s about taking the way you feel and using it as the reason that you think the thoughts you think it’s about taking a thought that doesn’t feel very good. And either choosing another thought altogether, or massaging that thought until it feels better. Then another book that came right on the heels of that is the astonishing power of emotions. And that book teaches you about the emotions that you feel and the value of them.
That may be the most significant book that you will ever read, that may be the only book that if we were standing in your physical shoes and went out there, and there’s a big pile of books that we would want, we would want to understand the emotions that we are feeling. And then we wrote a book called The vortex, the vortex that explains to you that everything you want already is and if you’re paying attention to how you feel, and maybe using some of the processes that help you to release resistance, and focusing deliberately that you can get into the receptive mode and let everything in that you want.
We haven’t been offering these words to you just because we think you want to hear some words, we’re answering the questions of how do you create your own reality? How do you create your own reality? By having thoughts that you think the question is? And this is the question that we’re really wanting to put to you to all of you are the thoughts you think thoughts that you’re thinking because you’re the creator of your own experience? Or the thoughts that you think, reactionary thoughts, because somebody else is having an experience that you’re observing, and you’re having a knee jerk reaction to what’s going on? Because that’s a big question. If you are reacting, then you have no control.
You’re like a cork bobbing on a raging sea, you have no control at all. So what would we do, we’d put ourselves in bed tonight, and we’d say, I am the creator of my own reality. And I like that. And then we would say to ourselves, and as I sleep tonight, momentum is going to subside, because my thoughts are not going to be active and Law of Attraction is not going to be reacting to my thoughts. However, law of attraction is going to continue to react to the thoughts of my inner being who never sleeps.
So the potential of me waking up in the morning, the probability of me waking up in the morning, and the thoughts of my inner being about everything I want being dominant, very good possibility of that, in fact, is a slam dunk is a sure thing. When I wake up in the morning, I’m going to feel the movement of what my inner being knows, and my beliefs are going to challenge it. But each time a belief challenges the path that my inner being has laid out for me to this excess of joy that I seek, I’ll feel some soft, negative emotion. And when I feel it, I can adjust my thought right then and there.
And if you will do that tomorrow, and the next day, and the next day, and the next day, it won’t be 30 days before you will have bridge your beliefs to be more in harmony with what your inner being knows to be. And you’re going to have evidence all around you. Evidence all around you a breakthrough after breakthrough and you know what a breakthrough is a breakthrough is you breaking through your own resistance. Only two ways to have a breakthrough.
Either really get that train going so fast that it doesn’t matter what the wall of resistance is, your train is going to break through it that’s hard on you and your train. Or little by little release the resistance so there is no hindrance to who you are and what you’re asking for. So now you understand the way creation, deliberate creation works. You heard us you understand it more clearly than you ever have before. And this body of people is understanding it right now more clearly than anybody has understood it before you create your own reality by massaging your thoughts. up into emotionally good feeling emotions. That’s it. That’s really all that it is. That’s really all that it is. I’ve heard it before, I’ve heard you say that. And I’ve tried the, you know, going to bed at night and setting an attention.
And now listen to what you’re doing here, because you’re beginning right now, even with all of that to argue for your limitations just a little bit, because we stacked up about 47 engines going that way. And then you said, I’ve tried it before, and I’m not so sure that it’s working for me, I’m a good focuser. And it works when I go that way. It works that way too. But catch yourself doing that. In other words, and that was your knee jerk. In other words, when we say you create your own reality, your knee jerk, given the vibration that you hold is, I’m not so sure about that.
Because I don’t think I would do things that I don’t want to myself. That’s a sort of knee jerk reaction. And so we don’t want you to heed our words or follow our words, or do what we say. We want you to care about the way you feel and choose better feeling thoughts. So our question to you to all of you is, how do you think you came to being willing to endure negative emotion? What’s up with that? Why would you choose a thought that doesn’t feel good when you could choose a thought that does feel good? Well, maybe it’s because you wanted the contrast to help you really launch some rockets, maybe you wanted to be a little hard on yourself, so that you’d ask in a stronger way.
Maybe you want it to deprive yourself of what you really want for a while so that you really care about it. Sometimes you do that to your kids, you say no, wait till your birthday, or wait till Christmas, I want you to really want this before you get it. Because then when you get it, you’ll really like it. So you sort of train yourself to hold yourself apart from the well being that would be there all the time. But we’re really putting a straightforward question to you to all of you. Why would you what would cause you to be willing to deprive yourself of feeling good? Why would you beat up on yourself?
And the answer is, you don’t like yourself very much. And the reason that you don’t like yourself very much is because you’ve been looking to disconnected people to like you, and they don’t like you very much. But it’s not personal. They don’t not like you because you’re not likeable, they don’t like you because they’re not in a likeable mood. It’s not personal, they’re not depriving you of their love, they’re just pinched off from their own love, so they don’t have anything to give you. And everybody’s gonna give you what they’re feeling self, they’re all pinched off and you say, look at me and give me something, they’re gonna give you something that you don’t like.
And then you’re gonna get used to what it feels like not to be liked. And all along your inner being is loving you so much every time you’re not being loved by someone, your inner beam is loving you more because you’re asking for a stronger, so the more source loves you. And the more you don’t let yourself feel the love of source. And the more you look through cracks of others for them to love you. And the more you become dependent upon them those flakey human friends, they’re just not consistent. They’re so fickle, oh, they’ll love you if you’ll do everything that they want you to do.
But boy, you better not let up for a minute. And their love for you will stop because it was contingent upon you pleasing them, because we love you so much. But you’ve got this backwards, and you’ve had it backwards for quite a while, haven’t you. But when you get it turned around, and you begin to accept that, when I feel love, that means I’ve opened the conduit and the love that is me is flowing through me, not through me only to others, but through me and to me, to me and through me, when you’re loving someone else, you know who receives the greatest benefit of your love you do because your mouth is wide open and every cell of your body is resonating with the love that is flowing through you.
You see, you got to stop looking for love bubbles in order to Love You gotta love just because that’s what you do you love. And then when you get in that vibration of love, oh, lovable shows just show themselves to you all over the place. So the question is a very powerful one. Why would you deprive yourself of feeling good? And the answer is habit is just a sloppy, lazy habit. It’s just letting somebody else who’s not connected look at you, and believe what they’ve got going on in their mind when usually it doesn’t have anything to do with you.
Esther sat on an airplane next to a man coming out. Well, first, she had chosen a seat. She likes the aisle. And she because she wants to get up without bothering anyone. And she doesn’t want the bulkhead because she likes her stuff with her. So she sat down in her seat that she had planned for and she was quite happy with it and she’s settling in and feeling very good. And then a family of four got on the airplane and they said, oh, oh, Our two children are going to sit here and then you’re here and then one of us is going to sit on the other side of you.
And then the other one of us is way up there on the bulkhead next to the window. And we were wondering if you would trade places with us so that we could all sit together. And Esther thought, I feel your pain. And then she looked at the children. And she thought, well, of course, that’s certainly the path of least resistance. It certainly is the path of least resistance, because she didn’t want to sit between the children and their mother or father. And she also did not really want the window. But since the only real option was to let them be together, she was already at the window.
So if I’m already at the window, really what difference does it make if I’m at this window or that window, so Esther sort of massage it into place so that she can comfortably say yes, and while she’s doing it, while she’s processing it, plus her bag was back here in the overhead. And now it needs to go way up there. And she’s thinking about all the things that are in her purse that she’s need to get out, like her charger in her phone, and all the things she likes to play with on a long flight.
And so while she’s processing that, which may have taken maybe six or seven seconds, the woman got impatient and said, Oh, for heaven’s sakes, I’ll just sit up there. And Esther said, Hold the phone. I’m not telling you that I’m not going to do it. I am going to do it. In fact, I’m what does it tell you that I’m delighted to do it. I’m just trying to get delighted before I do it. I’m happy to adjust to this. All right, I’m adjusting to this.
I’m adjusting to this because I am in agreement with you that it’s better that you all be together. I’m just trying to figure out how to make it work for me too. So just give me a minute. Just give me a minute. And now they’re laughing because Esther has been comical about it. And so then she says Dave, because she had heard his wife call him Dave. And he was surprised that she knew his name, but she’s just an eavesdropper. Dave, she said, I’m going to make you responsible for that bag. And when we land, I want you to pass that bag all the way up.
Wouldn’t you do that for me? And he said, Yes, I will. And Esther said, then I’m good. And so Esther went up, took her seat, and was happily sitting there in a situation that changed at the last minute that she did have to kind of talk herself into, because the worst thing in the world is to do something that you don’t want to do that split energy all over the place. So either gotta do what you want to do, or make yourself want to do what you’re going to do. The right answer wasn’t stay or move. There was no right answer. Esther couldn’t stay there and feel good. She was not going to sit in the middle of that family and feel good. That was not the path of least resistance for her.
The path of least resistance for her was certainly to accommodate this situation. Esther said to herself, this is no skin off my nose. There’s no problem with this. But she did know that she had to line up with it. Because if she went up there thinking thoughts like well, I planned ahead and you should have planned ahead and why didn’t you plan ahead and I don’t like the bulkhead, and I’ve got the bulkhead. And I don’t want the bulkhead and I don’t need an aisle seat, she would have had a miserable three hours on that airplane. She didn’t want a miserable three hours on that airplane, she wanted to happy three hours on that airplane. And this is the thing.
So whether you’re interacting with another person or whether you are grappling with your own beliefs, you got to work it out so that you feel better. You got to talk yourself into feeling good about you. You got to talk yourself into feeling good about the situation. And it’s really worth it. It’s a big payoff because when you keep your valve open no matter what, then good just keeps flowing to you.
But if you pinch your valve off for some petty little reason that really isn’t important because you’ve got some beliefs that you’ve been dragging around that haven’t served you that well anyway, then life can be a sort of hard road. Yes. This seems like an exceptionally good time for a segment of refreshment.