Infinite Intelligence Podcast Episode #466 – Help His Wife Be Happier



I have my wife, what is the best way to help her become happier? I guess, by wholeheartedly embracing the extraordinary number of step one moments she has in a day contrast is really serving her. While she is not like so many people understanding how to let it in, as you teach to the clarity of your example, she’ll start getting it. So take your attention away from the things that feel like they aren’t working. In other words, when you say how can I help somebody be happier?

We say you can’t. And we really want you to hear why. When you notice that they’re unhappy, you’re useless to that situation. Did you follow that? So the way you help her be happier is by imagining that she is or noticing when she is or not letting it matter when she isn’t, doesn’t everybody have to have some step one moments is everything. In contrast, a promotion of happy are some things in contrast, promotion of desire, understanding how it all works, makes it easier, and not freaking out, consider this. So here we are all together. It’s just never been better. Here we are all together.

And there’s so much attunement with who you really are that can’t you palpably feel the well being? So that’s what’s going on in here. Oh, and that doesn’t mean that there aren’t some things that people are worried about. But that’s predominantly what’s going on. So it is helpful to think about what you bring to any meeting to any physical gathering. What are you bringing to the table? Are you bringing your centeredness? Are you bringing the whole of you?

Are you bringing your clarity and wisdom? Or are you bringing your worry and you’re fretting. The best example that we have of this, Jerry and Esther had purchased a piece of land and then another piece of land, and then another one and another one and it was land, that it ended up being 40 acres on Interstate 10 in San Antonio, of really wonderful real estate property. And they didn’t see in the beginning that that’s where they were headed. And they were sitting one day on this seven acres.

That was before the whole thing had come together. And Jerry said to Esther, Can you feel how good this feels. And Esther said, I can. And then several years passed and they bought more property. And they ultimately built some buildings. That’s where their business offices are such a beautiful place. As it came together. It almost put itself together with seem. And one day Jerry and Esther were sitting at the end of this beautiful building in what they had assigned to be their office. And Jerry said, Esther, I just realized, we are sitting in a building that is right on that spot that we first found and felt the energy of all those years ago. He said, Would you mind I’d like to talk to Abraham.

And so Esther said, Of course she relaxed. Abraham greeted Jerry. And Jerry said, Abraham was I feeling all those years ago, the happy people who had lived here on this land. And we said, you were the happy people you were feeling there. They were picking up on the vortex version, even though the manifestation of it had not yet come about. So in the process of the gathering of this land that particular property had an easement that went out the backside and it wrapped around someone’s tennis court and wrapped around someone’s swimming pool.

And it was not a big enough easement that it could be utilized in any way. And it didn’t really matter to Jerry and Esther. By them. They had put enough property together that they had access to their properties all over the place. So the easement was not so important, but they were walking the easement that day just to see what it was. And a man who owned part of the property came over and he was angry that they were walking back there and they were explaining to him that according to their paperwork, that was their easement and he was very belligerent about it.

He didn’t want that to be their easement even though it was and then another man joined and then another person and there was a sort of contentious feeling. And Jerry and Esther they were just beeping along living happily ever after and they just wanted to see where the down easement was. They didn’t mean to start a turf war. But sometimes people are just that’s where they’re at. That’s what they’re ready for. And so they were standing there and Esther thought there must be some way for this to work itself out and then one of the men had a dog i Beautiful German Shepherd who hadn’t come with him and he came running across the field.

And he came over, took stock of the situation and immediately jumped in the swimming pool, then got out and started shaking all over all of them. got everybody wet, was a big time distraction, and then began running circles around them until they were all laughing. And then everything was better. You just couldn’t stand there with this happy beast, who had come deliberately to wrap them all together, and to show them that they were all in this together, that dog did not stop running around them until they were all laughing about it.

And now they’re slapping each other on the back, they’re shaking hands, they’re introducing themselves to each other and to the dog, it all lifted right off. And it gave Jerry and Esther an opportunity to say this easement will remain just as it is. In other words, we don’t need to do anything with the easement. Just wanted to see where it is. And so what we’re getting at is what you know, what we’re getting, what we’re getting out is that when you realize that well being is always in abundance around you.

And even though you might be in the middle of a conversation with someone who’s not ready to receive, their desire for wellbeing is the most dominant part of them, no matter how they are presenting themselves to you in any point in time. No one intends to not feel happy, everyone wants that it is the basis of everything that’s in everyone’s vortex, and everyone has a vortex. And your vortex is are all collectively tied.

So what we’re asking of you is just to decide what part you’re going to play, are you going to be the dog that jumps in the pool, and shakes happiness all over everyone, and runs around them with your antics until you convince them that wellbeing really is dominant, or you’re going to be one that stands off and points out the things that are wrong, and adds to the discontent and the unrest because you get to choose in every moment and every moment is a manifestation. And in every moment of every manifestation, you have the option of how much of your inner being that you bring to the party.

We just want to say and we know that you’ve been hearing this because we’ve been after this all day, how much you bring to the party at any point in time is really about how practiced you are to bring your inner being to the party, if you haven’t been practicing. And you’ll get in a situation where you could really use an inner being at the party, you’re not going to be able to let your inner being in because you haven’t practiced the vibration that allows that to be so you want to practice it all day everyday like the dog does, like the baby does, like you often do.

In other words, understand how it works. What are you bringing to the table? What are you bringing vibrationally to the mix? How are you holding the room? What is it that you are contributing? Are you a resistant one? Are you allowing one? Are you opening the gates to well being? Are you part of the shutting off them? In other words, what part do you play?

And really what you begin to discover is that when you figure out what part you’re playing, it doesn’t matter what part anybody else plays. Because there’s no assertion no one can keep you out of anything. No one can block your entry into any place. No one can prevent you from the happiness that you deserve. No one can deprive you of what you’ve asked for and what’s in your vortex.

No one can keep you from being a vibrational match to all that you’ve asked for. No one can shut down your receptive mode only you You say you’re the only one you have complete control of everything that comes into your experience. You just got to practice it a little bit because you kind of forgot for a while. Enough just.

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